You’re not supposed to even look at the gay bar while passing by it.
Too late. Even knowing it exists is sus but looking at it? 1%=100%. Brain can’t process ‘going inside’ of the bar or any of the other stuff that transpired.
i describe myself as warm but aloof. been told once “oh you’re just scared of people” but it was by somebody whose energies are super whirlwind negative all the time and suck the air out of a room with their attention demands so no, not all people