Yes, you can’t see it.
INFPs, I believe, follow scripts. Many, many many scripts. Mixing and matching, writing new ones, etc.
You seem to be following a script from an INFP perspective and an INFP reads that script and responds accordingly.
This is why INFPs are so easily to manipulate. Change the script and you get a different response.
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Doesn’t matter to me what your type is.
You are following a script – like a play. That is how an INFP sees it. If you want a different response, you engage using different words and style and with proper gravatas.
But if you’re just playing a ‘single part’ unable to change as needed for a situation, you’ll get the same responses from INFPs every time.
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