When the narrative doesn’t fit the expected form, it can be difficult to find support. If you are inclusive only to those whose narratives fit what you consider suitable, is that not being exclusive?
Listening to all is no easy task. As long as you have an enemy that is people, in my opinion, that’s a form of exclusivity. Peace requires a different level of acceptance and if one isn’t wrestling with their conscience in the process then it’s possible your world may be an echo chamber, keeping people out.