a) Subversive. You can love your mom but be subversive at the same time. Sneak around.
b) You could also have a screaming match with her, demanding your rights. Sometimes that works.
c) Things can remain as they are. Sometimes the devil you know is easier to deal with than the devil you don’t, as it were.
d) You could do the authoritative (with a tinge of authoritarian) thing and say:
“Mom, we need to talk.”
And lay it all out on the table.
Those are four options I can think of right now. Any one of them, or something else could work.