You’re a good person. You are a questioning person. You want to know more about yourself. You want to know what is happening within you. You want to know what is acceptable to others. You want to know what is acceptable to yourself.
These are all good things.
If there were no laws and no rules, and people accepted other people how they are, you would not even have a question to ask.
But the world isn’t like that. So it is a struggle.
It is a good thing that no one can read minds. You can think any thought you wish to think.
How you are allowed to behave, depends where you live. Some things you can’t do because you will be punished by law. Some things you can’t do because you will be punished by the people around you by laughing, or being cast out of a community. These are frightening things.
We all want to be accepted by others.
Well, I accept you however you are. Whatever you decide, to me, you are ok. You have friends.