was I a boy or was I a girl? (1990) it didn’t matter unless you were a sex organ doctor or wanted to have sex with me. I didn’t care what pronoun people used unless they were insistent in some irritating way. “As a man you should….”. Yeah, no, that’s not true.

 If a girl wants to do construction labor and a boy wants to do childcare but nearly all of the adults around actively discourage that because of their insistence upon treating boys and girls differently, how is that not a problem?