this may be true for neurotypical people and sometimes an aspiration for neurodivergent folks but sadly too often a shaming by professionals who don’t recognize that this progression *does not necessarily apply* to neurodivergent who find these things difficult if not impossible because they (we I could say?) have to do consciously and slowly and with difficulty what others may do automatically/naturally. I shared these kinds of memes for years as wishes and dreams, like mysteries. I like them as wishes but it could not be demands.

this may be true for neurotypical people
and sometimes an aspiration for neurodivergent folks but sadly too often a shaming by professionals who don’t recognize that this progression *does not necessarily apply* to neurodivergent who find these things difficult if not impossible because they (we I could say?) have to do consciously and slowly and with difficulty what others may do automatically/naturally. I shared these kinds of memes for years as wishes and dreams, like mysteries. I like them as wishes but it could not be demands.