They’re overloaded. It’s more like a collection of “feelings” mushed together than a coherent story. It reminds me of that Star Trek TNG with the Metaphor person. It’s a whole bunch of “remember?” basically – and if you don’t share those same stories, they’re incoherent.
Same here. It’s why I don’t go along too deeply. I’ll peek a little at a fact or two, but then I try to change the subject as it’s not going to go well.