I use the label agnostic for other people’s convenience I’m 43 It took me a VERY long time to accept a label.
It comforts people to put me into a category, so I found one I could tolerate. One that says, “I don’t know”.
Am I really that label? No. But it turned out to be the least offensive to most and it takes very little explaining to those who misunderstand.
Still, I’d like to remove it again But for now, as these topics keep coming up, I give a label out as it comforts them They feel secure in believing they know who I am based on a word, so it’s a concession.