If I were in their shoes and _didn’t_ know you were drugged and raped and saw the video and first went defensive, “no no, not me”….
THEN, I’d come clean, stand by your side and get on a mission to track down every last copy of it and get it GONE.
It’s a betrayal. There’s no 100% recovery nor should there be BUT the right thing to do is fix this problem and not make it worse and they should start now.
There’s a way through this. They have the next move.