If Kim Davis the person (not the online persona that we learn about through memes and TV) came to me and said, “It hurts when people say God doesn’t love me”, I would be compassionate and understanding.
I wouldn’t say, “Well, Kim, that’s what you get for not signing those marriage certificates! How do you think THEY FEEL? And what about all the gay kids in so-called Christian homes that are told God doesn’t love them? You’re a jerk, the people you represent are jerks and I hate you all!”
The thing is: Who is being the jerk in that case?