The men over 30 had their ignorant fun while those who were raped or groped or harassed stayed quiet.
Raping, groping and harassing still continue today.
Those who were raped or groped or harassed carried the shame for ALL THAT TIME while the men over 30 had the luxury to forget about it.
I might get a shock or two or ten from my past that I don’t remember.
But I have to stand by those who carried the pain, even though it’s possible that I may have music to face myself one day.
It scares me a bit, as it should.
But those who carried the pain all that time have been carrying a deficit while those who caused the pain have been carrying a credit.
As far as online bad humor? Go back and delete it. Clean up a mess if you made it, especially if in the public eye.
You have a right to rewrite your identity ,so long as it’s not a legal fraud of some kind.