That’s what lawsuits are for. If it’s true that:
“told in writing by the dean of the university’s music faculty that “a girl will never sing in a boys’ choir” and that she was twice refused auditions,
that’s a clear case of discrimination under Germany’s 2006 law.
I’m not a lawsuit kind of person. But laws are laws and if it’s broken, a lawsuit is a way to find out.
https://www.wilmerhale.com/en/insights/publications/new-anti-discrimination-law-in-germany-july-31-2006
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