That’s generally true. Same goes for trusted friends who don’t also happen to also know the person that said “keep a secret?” and say to them, “haha, can you believe? They said you told them a SECRET! So stupid! Guess what they told me you told them? haha”
But really, you probably should tell your spouse and bff ’cause… you might just DIE if you don’t tell SOMEONE…
Shaming kids for what parents do is generally bad tbh. I’ll die on this hill too.