Yes – that’s it right there. That awkward zone ‘inbetween’ where it’s not ‘either’ and it’s not ‘or’ yet it also is and also both and neither. Most of our logic systems (and even our language itself) doesn’t support expressing that concept very well, so it usually takes lots of anecdotes.
We’re not taking sides. It’s not a standard debate this time. It’s teasing out that awkward inbetween that we usually don’t like to face.