Social issues {name calling} must be addressed in the 3rd grade. gay and retarded must be given apropriate synonyms THEN.

I think it’s appropriate to address the issue *precisely* at the point that kids start using the words inappropriately as terms of abuse.

In the 3rd grade, they don’t _know_ what gay or retarded means. They don’t even _need to k
now_. [they’ll figure it out by 4th or 5th grade].

But a kid that’s called gay in the 3rd grade and doesn’t know what it means… then later finds out what it means… can spend YEARS or DECADES of identity crisis issues..

No, I think it’s completely appropriate to be addressed. Will it be effective? Well, forbidden fruit as it is, probably not. But language matters. There’s no innocent taunting and 3rd-5th graders can be VERY cruel to each other, as parents and teachers just brush it off as “childish”. But these are future adults.. and mental anguish starts right at the point of socialization with peers.

I believe it is also the point to address gossip.
Gossip leads to mean-girls. [among boys too – same behavior]
and future cutters were once talked about behind their backs in 3rd grade

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