Don’t date. Had three crazy relationships in my early 20s, all in a row, over a few years time. (had less turmoil relationships before that) Emotional ups and downs. Total rollercoaster, brought out things in me I didn’t like at all.
Anyway, one day, I was done. I figured somewhere in my 40/50s (I’m 44 now) I’ll find someone compatible if I want.
I’m nice and likable, lots of admirable qualities, get enough offers without trying from women (and guys alike). Just no interest. I suspect I’m somewhere on the autistic spectrum somewhere, I dunno. I get focused on whatever I’m working on at the time, preferring large amounts of friends online and get moments of “deep, meaningful” out of my interactions with everybody here rather than looking for “the one true love” thing.
Seems to work for me. Can’t say it’s for everybody ’cause it’s not.