s this one of those freemason / kool kids klub / secret order of the phi / “the 2nd floor bathrooms are off limits to freshmen unless you complete these steps” kind of thing?
Ah, you’re Amish and these are the steps to a shunning
Most groups don’t define themselves by “who they are” but rather “who they’re not”. The whole in-group / out-group thing. Never understood it really, but I’d watch as it took place in school. Then found out “wait, adults do it too? weird”. I understand it better now. It’s a power thing.
You’re beautiful. The ideas of some random programmer who made a free app on the internet doesn’t make or break beauty.