Got online in 1989.
It’s now 2019.
I found my answer. It’s online.
But my friendships, with the exception of a few, were and are mostly warm but aloof and that’s what I like. That’s why online was/is a perfect fit for me.
The few that are the DEEEP kind I’ve transferred to aloof and warm too.
I didn’t like the deep kind. Too much drama. WAY too much drama.