“rape humor” among adolescent boys who are of the “me ‘n the boys” mentality are common. Most adolescent boys grow out of it by adulthood except for men in professions (military, police, other emotionally-immature men heavy professions) or hobbies (gaming) that encourage “me and the boys” thinking. I was/am a nerd so I wasn’t a part of it but I heard it, rolled my eyes at it, or did a weak awkward chuckle if I had to. But in both the case of the adolescent boys and also the adolescent-minded adult men, neither group actually expects anyone to rape. None of their own would rape: it’s all “just jokes you see” – so they think. Yet, sometimes subgroups that rape do form and they cover up each other’s actions. I think this is probably more of a problem in elite preparatory schools and in professions which encourage secrecy and brotherhood over the duties of the profession itself. But that’s less common than the solitary rapist who laughs with the group or makes the jokes but isn’t joking. They can blend in and pretend. Then there’s the rapist loners. But I don’t know which is more common to be honest. I think most men grow out of rape humor by adulthood thankfully. Simply being in a relationship (of any kind) and loving somebody else and having life responsibilities or an awareness of the real world should cure anybody of that.

“rape humor” among adolescent boys who are of the “me ‘n the boys” mentality are common.
Most adolescent boys grow out of it by adulthood except for men in professions (military, police, other emotionally-immature men heavy professions) or hobbies (gaming) that encourage “me and the boys” thinking.
I was/am a nerd so I wasn’t a part of it but I heard it, rolled my eyes at it, or did a weak awkward chuckle if I had to.
But in both the case of the adolescent boys and also the adolescent-minded adult men, neither group actually expects anyone to rape.
None of their own would rape: it’s all “just jokes you see” – so they think.
Yet, sometimes subgroups that rape do form and they cover up each other’s actions. I think this is probably more of a problem in elite preparatory schools and in professions which encourage secrecy and brotherhood over the duties of the profession itself.
But that’s less common than the solitary rapist who laughs with the group or makes the jokes but isn’t joking. They can blend in and pretend.
Then there’s the rapist loners. But I don’t know which is more common to be honest.
I think most men grow out of rape humor by adulthood thankfully. Simply being in a relationship (of any kind) and loving somebody else and having life responsibilities or an awareness of the real world should cure anybody of that.
It’s true. In my day it was reading “Truly Tasteless Jokes” book and stuff. Boys think it’s mature to be against relationships, mock girls but it’s an extension of “girls are icky” – and verbal fantasies of dominating over women are littered throughout.
It was pathetic to me when I was a kid and it still is. I see it among my nephew’s generations memes and jokes too. Same bad jokes, different formats (memes)– nowadays it’s mixed with perverse hentai fantasy material too but fundamentally the same kind of tasteless adolescent fantasy humor that thankfully most men grow out of.
That said, there is the incels – the men who believe that they deserve a beautiful woman as a birthright and feel that they are personally denied and therefore hate all women as a consequence.
That is something I’d never seen before in my life and they can get very dangerous.
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It is and will continue to be VERY DIFFICULT to prove to many men (and women) that a “rape culture” exists BECAUSE they believe with all of their hearts that it’s JUST JOKES and anybody who complains is a SNOWFLAKE etc.

and they don’t realize that they are allowing rapists to hide among them easily in the process and are horrified when it comes to their little social groups and one of their own is found to be an actual rapist.

It’s willful naivety which is what makes it so dangerous.

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