People should always strive to make the best of a bad situation.
But that doesn’t make the bad situation a good situation. It’s still a bad situation that one managed to cope, recover and build off of.
It’s like everytime someone says, “I was beaten as a child and I turned out fine”. But if you take a look at them you can see: they did not turn out fine. They coped, which is good. Resilience is good. But advocating beating because one was beaten is not a healthy response.