Paul Follows oh very good : I like transactional analysis and forgot about this one.
what I figured what would happen to me in this one is:
All three roles simultaneously.
sticks me in a freeze mode
so I feel it coming on i step out or try to fix within the limited amount of time I have.
it’s mechanical at that point : figure out mechanisms to lower the levels to reach some kind of OK
doesn’t work in direct confrontation
thankfully I don’t find myself like this as much as I used to
and I’ve often clueless at reading rooms
but when it snaps in it’s quick
Karpman Drama Triangle – it was cool seeing that again — and I might be reading it wrong. it could simply be “rescue mode” except it as much self rescue as anything else.