Only homosexuality and gender. The rest is fluid.

Only homosexuality and gender.
The rest is fluid.

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Homosexuality is so darned narrow of a window compared to everything else. Who would choose it?

But gay is a broader category and anyone can “catch the gay” if they accidentally see a pp or show any empathy whatsoever.

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Foot fetishing is a surprisingly common fetish. It’s probably what most average people think of when they think “fetish”, almost as if it’s a “gateway fetish”. [if he’s into feet, WHAT ELSE is he up to?]

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I think most people would be shocked and disturbed if they knew what other stuff is commonly out there.

Once upon a time, I thought male gay was a dick, male mouth, male sweat or butthole fetish, and I thought male straight was a boob, vag, mom or makeup fetish.

Still on the fence though as it’s _probably_ deeper than all that.

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I think for them it’s more of a politics thing. “I declare I am straight” meanwhile harboring lots of little secrets.

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It’s a tricky topic. You can get away with it (for now), my nephew can talk about it (he’s loli but without the neonazi trash connection), but if someone over, say, 27 yrs old is actively talking about it a lot, it ‘raises red flags’ and from 18-27, I’d say people start raising eyebrows but there’s still a “he’s immature yet” card they play.

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Probably not, but there’s no knowing yet how much is a show for friends (for the memes and shock value) and how much is actual. That’s up to him.

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Throwing it into “it’s my caveman nature” is a tough sell though, as “we live in a society”.

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Here’s the thing though: “Raising children as” straight [gender] doesn’t seem to affect their orientation in any way.

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 alt.take: Women reach their peak horniness around age 35 where they can match up to teenage boy horniness. Therefore, MILF is biologically natural.
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Caveman justifications and/or hormone level justifications are just that: excuses. If it’s your thing, it’s your thing but making it everybody-should-be-this-way can lead you into some questionable narratives.You might be right, I dunno, but it’s slippery.
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 It’s hard to sell me via evo psych, but a lot of men avoiding their inclinations – from whatever source – for the sake of avoiding prison or saving face “in a society in which we live”, or other reasons – does seem to be true.
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  I gotta drag shit out from the 1970s for that stuff. That’s when “it’s all how you raise them” was in vogue.
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 A lot of that (in Norway) was found even in the USA at that time.I still think Norway is far closer to correct in this. It’s important that in Norway it was/is a nationally endorsed effort.In the USA, we had “Shock away the Gay” in the South, while also “Free the gay children” in the North, at exactly the same time.
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  #childhoodruined moment, I know. SOMEBODY must have the answers. I trust these bigger, hairier, smellier versions of “me” so they know what they’re doing. Right?Right?They don’t? Fuck.
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  This is exactly why I’m here right now, doing what I do. I decided to be “one of the good ones”. I had enough virtual mentors and thought things through enough that I could do it.So I do. I’m not a role model but I wanted to be just a little less shitty and just a little smarter than a lot of the adults I knew growing up — the ones that fell short.
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Oh, I’m not teaching. I’m myself.

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  If I give any motivation, it’s stuff like, “If you’re gonna be an asshole, be the biggest asshole you can be” Other times, I’m just a librarian, spitting out what I know. But, I have opinions and like the back-and-forth, sword-strengthens-sword thing too.Ultimately, I want everybody to be themselves, decide for themselves. But to do that I am myself and I give what I got. I’m not a leader in a marching band but like connecting brain-to-brain with people as much as I can.and I’m sure you’re a fine teacher. I’ve seen you do it, inbetween the times you troll
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 That’s what I mean when I say, “I’m not teaching. I’m myself”. You’re not teaching either. You’re yourself.
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 I mean, damn, we humans gotta be more than just “information tubes”.
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Good teachers learn more while they teach.

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 That’s just how I see it. I see the other kind of teaching as kind of fake, a game of “repeat after me”, which to me is propaganda, not teaching. But I’m biased.
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