Ok, probably aspergers. I’d learned about adhd/hyperfocus around the same time too.
“Instead, they have to infer other people’s feelings, intentions, and interests laboriously, using explicit rules.”
Only big issue I have is this notion of “Theory of Mind”. Someone like me apparently lacks it but the notion of a theory of mind is absurd. Mind reading? Bah. But do others have minds? Of course.
https://www.health.harvard.edu/newsletter_article/aspergers-syndrome
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