My standard is within tolerances given the environment.
In short, the environment sets a range which might seem all over the scale from an outside POV, but it is a microcosm. Within that environment, there will be a range of “what’s tolerable”.
I expect to always be within those tolerances, whatever they may be given the environment and affordances and that that is a perfectly rational expectation.
That does not mean there will be no breaking in period but once that is finished, norms will be found, like water in different shaped glasses eventually find their level.