It’s the trouble with having a minority opinion; your battle will be uphill all the way. I’ve been there – not about this issue but about others.
Honestly I believe psychological testing for all parents should be mandatory but then again, then I’d be trusting the establishment that their norms will be correct.
So, I let anarchy rule in parenting. Melting pot of society evens people out generally, whatever their upbringing. It’s amazing any of us survive childhood at all honestly.