Not everybody’s gonna call you ugly and not everybody’s gonna call you beautiful. I haven’t seen any universals in those areas yet.
If you know you’re handsome, their words bounce off.
When you think about “hot or not” type things, it’s not “how hot or how not” but rather, it’s “How much does this person conform to a single person who I think is beautiful?”
In short, judging beauty is usually a “how far away from [one template] are you?”
I don’t know why people participate in that activity myself. It’s like saying, how oak tablelike is this table? or How Android is this iPhone? In short: it’s stupid.