if I knew, I’d have done it already. I keep dancing around the same few. What’s hard is distinguishing between “who i want to be like and who i imagine myself to be’ to ‘what my behavior reveals about me that distinct from what i imagine or what i hope’
INFP 4w5-9w8-7w6 i’m leaning towards, switching the 9w1 to the 9w8 as I am more a pluralist than a universalist – and I the “team mom/team dad” feature as I’ve been that role