I enjoy getting to know people. Like, I love finding out what fascinates them.. what ‘drives’ them… their enthusiasm… what their “nerdy” about.
If you find someone’s driving force, you always have a place to go in a conversation.
I’m 43, online since I was 17. I see each person as a unique individual yet also can sometimes see patterns. Because of this, I try to find the places where people are NOT following the patterns… I try to find the unique bits – and everybody has unique bits about them.
I sound like a TV commercial. ugh, I must be tired.