I want to say “any port in a storm” but that’s not quite appropriate here.
Can’t believe people wouldn’t think bisexual men are real. Heck, I was Mr Enlightened in the late 80s going around school telling anybody who asked, ‘no, I’m not straight or gay. I’m bisexual”. and get that “woah” look of “dude, you’re like beyond”. Then later heard of pansexual and adopted that by my senior year (1990). That’s like 27 yrs ago… and I doubt i was ahead of my time in any way. Just look at the 70s disco shit… they were ALL about that bi stuff, except unlike, “enlightened teenager me”, they were just slopping around the cities, coked up on the dance floor or whatever ppl did in the 70s. I never wanted to know.