I mean, I try to be conscious of my beliefs and enact them and not be untrue to them. When I see a discongruent bit, I work on it one way or the other, or accept it
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Well, I try to work on not overregulating. That’s been a lifelong theme. Perhaps fitting into the “does the opposite” thing that you mentioned; when I was very young, I was extremely neat and tidy. One day, I got tired of being that way and consciously made little messes. After a while, I broke myself of the need to be a neatnik. Perhaps too much.
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