I have a whole coping mechanism process for pleasing people.

I have a whole coping mechanism process for pleasing people. I developed a hierarchy, questions I ask myself, a whole sorting mechanism that I can use on the fly.

I’m a “service oriented” person but I had to develop “no skills” that didn’t involve ever really saying “no”. I’ve become a conscious “avoider” so I can focus my people pleasing in a more focused way.

I’m not crazy about having to do it; I still want to please everybody, but at least I feel in control now.

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