Won’t share mosts, but I’ll share this one and see how it flies:
Early internet, 1991-ish, made friends with a woman online who turned out to live only a state away. I’m white, she’s black. She picked me up in her compact and we had sex with the seat down in an abandoned parking lot in a bad part of a neighboring town. Very awkward and hysterically funny. She wanted to find out what sex with a white guy was like and I wanted to find out what sex with a black woman was like. Only one time and we remained friends.
She did. She threatened to share it back with a kiss, which was part of the hysterics. It was over several hours, tried most configurations in that awkward car, just waiting to get caught. One of those “tried it once” experiences for the both of us. [not sex but the interracial thing]
I didn’t care for the kissing – she thought I was “too dry” and I thought she was “too mushy”. I guess in the end, it was “this is how nerdy people with autistic tendencies do things” or something
Naw, it was fun. We compared notes the whole time. Purely scientific really.
We were either talking or laughing the whole time.
[they weren’t written notes. Figure of speech. ‘comparing notes” – describing things as we went along.