I found magic words in a “teen brain” debate that worked.
“8. Final remarks:
the ‘teen brain’ debate in perspective
Young people are not passive victims of brains that are out of control. They are active agents in the design of an adulthood that meets their needs and enables them to survive within their environment and make sense of experience (Sercombe and Paus, 2009, p. 35)”
It is from this: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0149763411000327
If you go to sci-hub (dot) tw and paste the URL into it, you can get the whole thing. (only 10 pgs but interesting)