I don’t lie – not intentionally. I like wordplay but I don’t lie.
for all of the ways I am smart I have several very big blind spots.
I know they are there because people tell me they are.
but I don’t always know when I run into them.
it’s like having your hair stuck up in the back of your head but you have no mirror.
other people can see it.
if you asked me if my hair is sticking up on top of my head I would say “no”.
but that’s not lying. I just don’t see it.
unfortunately I run into this a lot.
I’m usually a good communicator but I have blind spots in certain areas.
I don’t read social cues at all. I will often find something amusing when it may be serious. or I will be serious when I should loosen up and relax.
common introvert problems of course.
I can’t read implied questions at all.
that’s probably the biggest wall I run into.
that’s why I get hyper explicit.