So, I understand the fundamental disconnect between name and person and even put my money where my mouth is.
Just the same, if your friend is hurt, your friend is hurt.
It’s not their attachment to their name that’s the issue.
It’s their attachment to the hurt that’s attached to you, nameless beings all.
Let’s take time and space out of it. There’s a hurting. There’s a known solution for a hurting. Names or not, the hurting is a verb that remains in the eternal present yet it is possible to modify the eternal present.
Also consideration: If it is a lesson you wish to teach and the student is failing to receive the lesson, – is it not the teacher’s responsibility to improve communication and not the student being unable to understand?
But, I am preaching and interfering. For that, I apologize. Carry on as you desire – I am just enacting my desire to reduce a hurting in some fashion and if I am ineffective, it is my responsibility and nobody else’s. Thank you for listening. It is always appreciated and I appreciate your time. I do not desire you to change a thing. Freedom from desire takes effortlessness and I exerted effort here in my inertial stubbornness. I shall continue gliding along.