changes depending on my whim if there are any patterns in my behaviors, perhaps other people can see them, but I am mostly blind to my own I would say it’s situational. How am I most useful in this moment? but there’s something missing in saying, “most useful” it is “most useful [for whom]?” there’s always a who they can be real or fictional, alive, or dead, existing only in memories, but it’s always useful to somebody or to an “idea of” somebody and there doesn’t have to be a single “most useful to” sometimes there’s a balance, where I am most useful in a situation by reserving a percentage to myself and a percentage to serving another or others.

changes depending on my whim

if there are any patterns in my behaviors, perhaps other people can see them, but I am mostly blind to my own

I would say it’s situational. How am I most useful in this moment?

but there’s something missing in saying, “most useful”

it is “most useful [for whom]?”

there’s always a who

they can be real or fictional, alive, or dead, existing only in memories, but it’s always useful to somebody or to an “idea of” somebody

and there doesn’t have to be a single “most useful to”

sometimes there’s a balance, where I am most useful in a situation by reserving a percentage to myself and a percentage to serving another or others.

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