but now.. i still don’t know the connection between Heather Heath, you and my mom. I had it nicely mapped to Delores Heath (you) vs Robert Paul Heath (Heather Heath). ..oh wait that explain how you guys are first cousins
But how is my mother is third cousins to Heather Heath but first cousin to you?
Closer to you through Delores Heath vs Heather through Robert Paul Heath makes sense if those siblings have different mothers or different fathers.
But my mother’s STILL third cousins to Heather Heath so they’re still related. Oh boy. just when i think it makes sense…