As I tend to believe in emergent reality, I’m perfectly ok with reality ‘resting upon’, well, anything, at its base.
Since we do not engage with that base very much except at the fringes, I think we can go either way with it: focus on the human tendency towards being object-oriented and stay with that, or conceptualize until meaning itself dissipates and other directions still, or hold them all together.
It’s not so much an “everybody’s right in their own way”, rather it’s different kinds of “right” at different views.
Like for example, it’s really hard to get away from waves. longitudinal waves in particular. With those you end up with a kind of “background vs foreground” state;