and we both seem to admire their independence and self-care. I’ve only had house cats – the last passed in my arms just prior to covid after a long life – the latest two cats in the house aren’t mine but I get to enjoy their company.
But I don’t think I ever had the blessing of a stray visiting repeatedly over a long stretch of time. That’s an entirely voluntary behavior on their part which is what makes the relationship you had extra special I think.
Thanks again for sharing.