Men are this, women are that. It’s a dichotomy. A false one. I’ve heard many times I have heard in my life (I’m 44 yrs old):
“All men are [insert disparaging remark]”….
…then one woman in the group turns towards me with a sympathetic look and says,
“..but not you Ken. You’re different.”
Heard it as a kid. Teenager, Adult. Now I’m middle aged. I still hear it.
It’s a bad way to view the world. It’s not good to expose children to that attitude. It’s sexism.
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Oh it’s not that difficult. I had mothers of my friends who thought they were “MILF” and would push their boobs in my face and come on to me. I wasn’t interested in them. They were turned on by my adolescent intellectual talk and I don’t know what else. I was polite and kind but then they’d try to cross a line. Thankfully none succeeded.
So, I never understood “breasts as weapon” or a flirting tool.
I also never understood breasts as a ‘turn on’ for men. If it’s their thing, it’s their thing I guess.
But someone being turned on by a women breast feeding is, to me, like someone being turned on by a baby sucking on his mother’s calf or something. It’s ridiculous.
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